I’m a huge fan of the cougar fling and I’m going to tell you exactly why. Actually, more importantly, I’m going to tell you why cougars are attracted to younger men. We all know why young guys are attracted to sexy older women, affectionately nicknamed Cougars. Cougars are hot, they have tons of experience to help fulfill all your sexual fantasies, and they don’t play games like a lot of younger girls do.
So, why are Cougars so attracted to younger men? There are various reasons besides just their youth. Cougars usually have a youthful look because they have maintained their bodies and haven’t let themselves go, so they have a wide range of choices and more than enough men, both young and old, want to be with them. So, why do they choose younger men? Let’s look at a few things that attract older women. This knowledge may help you snag that cougar you have your eyes on.
Reasons Cougars Like Younger Men
Here are some of the most important things you need to understand when it comes to cougars and hooking up with them. There are rules and as simple as they are, they do make a difference today.
She doesn’t play games, so you shouldn’t either.
One of the main reasons you crave a cougar is because she doesn’t play games like younger girls do. She knows what she wants and she goes after it. She doesn’t bother to beat around the bush. You should follow suit. If you want her, tell her. Being subtle will get you nowhere. She’s heard every pick-up line in the book and she will know when you’re not being genuine. This doesn’t mean to be crass. Use common sense and be honest with her. Always.
Texting is a young girl’s game. Pick up the phone and call.
If you have dated younger girls, you have probably grown accustomed to texting. Well, you need to get over that if you are going to approach a cougar. She won’t respond to texting like a young girl would. She wasn’t raised on texting and she’s most likely wants to hear your voice. Besides, if you text her, you run the risk of her misunderstanding you and frustrating her. She also might consider texting to be lazy. Don’t be lazy and don’t be afraid to speak to her. Call her if you want the best results.
Chivalry is not dead, as far as cougars are concerned.
Younger women don’t hold chivalry in such high regard as women of previous generations. Women these days prefer to be more independent and they don’t respond as well to doors being opened for them or pulling chairs out for them to sit down. Call on your inner Casanova and don’t be afraid to romance her and be what some girls consider “old-fashioned”. A cougar will appreciate a man who is polite and romantic. If you make the extra effort, it will pay of in the long run.
Flatter her. Compliments go a long way and make her want you bad.
Complimenting her and making her feel beautiful is something that women of all ages can appreciate and it goes a long way towards making them attracted to you. It’s especially important with cougars because they may feel that they are getting old or feel self-conscious about whether a younger man truly desires them for their beauty or just wants to get them in bed. Make the effort to make her feel like there is no other woman you would rather be with than her.